Hypnosis for Intimacy and Sexual Confidence
Private hypnosis sessions in San Jose or Online.
Tailored for high-functioning professionals who need results, not more talk.
When your body says no to what you consciously want, it’s a learned nervous system instruction.
That’s exactly what we update with hypnosis, also known as hypnotherapy.
30 minutes. Private. Clear next steps.
This is not the case of “trying harder.”
You’re motivated.
You know what you want.
Physically, emotionally.
But when the moment comes, something else takes over.
It may have started with past experiences. It may have come from trauma.
But what’s running now is a learned unconscious loop.
And loops can be changed.
Shut down, go numb, go fast, or “check out” during intimacy
Want to want it, but don’t
Feel arousal fade under pressure, even with a partner they love
Experience ED, or physical freeze, with no apparent cause
Overthink, disconnect, or avoid sex altogether, even when they don’t want to
The goal is a pattern update.
This is hypnosis for people who:
Arousal that actually shows up, instead of vanishing
Emotional presence that doesn’t shut down mid-connection
Confidence in sexual settings.
Less analysis, more instinct
Choice instead of autopilot
And perhaps most importantly:
Relief.
From the fight with your own body.
What Changes
Anastasia Chai Hypnosis is not casual work. It’s focused, private, and structured for people who are ready to move forward.
How This Works
It’s an update for the part of you that acts without your permission.
The process is simple:
Identify the outdated instruction your nervous system runs under stress
Replace it with one that reflects what you want now
Lock it in with a “command” you can access in real life
This is how you stop negotiating with your own body.
Not through effort. Through the precision that hypnosis allows us.
Who I Work With
My hypnosis sessions are designed for high-functioning professionals who:
Are successful in other domains, but can’t control this one
Want competent, structured help
Have already tried willpower, therapy, or “talking it out.”
Have ruled out the necessity of medical intervention
Are ready to shift how their body responds, not just how they feel about it
If that’s you, we’re likely a fit.
Why Hypnosis
You’ve tried conscious effort.
That’s not where this lives.
Hypnosis gives us access to the automatic, physiological, reflexive part of you that controls arousal, response, avoidance, and presence.
We use that access to create a new instruction.
One that your body actually listens to, even under pressure.
What To Expect
In your first session:
We identify the current loop and its real-world triggers
You experience the first shift in how your system responds
You leave with a reinforcement strategy you can use immediately
Most clients notice a shift right away.
And it deepens in the days that follow.
FAQ
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Yes. We don’t chase performance. We change the instruction that interferes with it.
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I’m not asking you to rehash anything.
I’m helping you to change the part of you that acts on its own.
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If you can follow instructions, focus, and notice sensation, then yes.
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Many clients see real change within 2-4 sessions. We decide the next steps based on measurable shifts.
Private, Professional, Based in San Jose
My practice is located in San Jose and available online.
I work exclusively with clients who are ready for direct, structured change.
This work is confidential.
There is no diagnosis.
No guessing.
Just outcomes.
Ready to Stop Negotiating With Yourself?
You already know what you want.
Now your body has to follow.
And if it’s still running a pattern that no longer works, we can change it.
Hypnosis is not magic.
It is precise instructions to give you the results you want.
30 minutes. Private. Clear next steps.